Arguments - Good or Bad?

The definitions of an argument in the dictionary are:

1. an oral disagreement; verbal opposition; contention; altercation.

2. a discussion involving differing points of view; debate.

3. a process of reasoning; series of reasons.

4. a statement, reason, or fact for or against a point.

5. an address or composition intended to convince or persuade; persuasive discourse.

When you are in a relationship, an argument is always the definition of number 1 which will lead to a violent conversation and this will hurt both parties eventually.But in my point of view, there are advantages and disadvantages in arguments.

Advantages: Gain more knowledge
Get to know what is in the other's head
Learn from each other
See more clearly other's different point of view

Disadvantages: Some people get offended if their view is challenged
They can quickly escalate into something fierce if misunderstood
Some people are ignorant and that can upset the partner or others.

Well, it happened to me today on the this special Christmas Day 2011. Don't let this happen to you and talk nicely. It has definitely spoilt my day...